21 Fun Questions To Rescue You On A Date

Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, “How to win friends and influence people” talks about the benefit of asking good questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a woman and want to pamper a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?

7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?

8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?

11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?

13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?

14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?

And now let’s get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!

15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What’s your biggest sexual ‘turn-ons’ and ‘turn-offs’?

19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?

20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do and who was it?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

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